I’m not big on New Year’s resolutions, but I admit they have their place. What are some things we could do this year, to lessen the stress of lost opportunities from the past year, and heighten the possiblities for the new one?

* Don’t beat yourself up for ‘missing it’ at times…Realize that we all fail and God’s love still surrounds you

* Allow yourself to fail. Too often we expect more from ourselves than God does, or others do.

* Don’t plan to fail. Expect the best out of life and keep a positive attitude. No, being positive doesn’t cause good things to fall in your lap, but it certainly will keep down the stress levels and make you an easier person to live with.

* Take small bites. Now ladies, I could be talking about food here, but I’m not, LOL! Don’t set such high standards for what you hope to change, that you don’t ever come close to succeeding, and decide to quit. If you’re trying to lose 50 lbs, shoot for 30 and give yourself a realistic time frame to do it in. Don’t quit eating everything sweet, just cut back a bit. Don’t feel you have to exercise 5 days per week, 30 minutes per time, just start with a walk around the block. Be realistic in your expectations.

* Above all else, pray over everything you do. Nothing is too big, or too small for God to handle. Invite Him into each decision and commitment and ask that He guide you and grant wisdom. That’s one prayer He’ll always answer!

* End each day with Thanksgiving…not only to your heavenly Father, but to members of your family. Remember to thank those who are a blessing in your life and encourage them in their daily walk. The rewards are abundant!

Have a blessed, wonderful New Year, Each and every one of you & Please let me hear from you occasionally!